I said, “Well I’m good for sex and not girlfriend material”
He’s recently got a new girlfriend who’s skinny and a bit younger. Apparently she’s near perfect and I know he has been treating her better than he treated me so far, I think its partly because she’s popular so he wouldn’t want anyone finding out his true colours but its also because I think she’s not as vulnerable as I was but she should watch out as he is a cunning heart breaker. Apparently she wants children and he claims he never ever wants children so that will probably destroy her eventually unless he starts being dispondant sooner once he realises she’s not perfection. I still suffer from the pain he caused me and now I have a bit more strength and insight I know how to avoid the situation reaccurring with anyone else.
It makes me sad as I am so open and honest and after that I felt and still feel conned. He was cold hearted and almost a bit phychotic, sadistic and ruthless. I know other Virgos who aren’t like him but it has brought me solace to find people who have had similar experiences.
I was with this Virgo guy, and he was PERFECT. Actually i have Mars in Virgo so i’m pretty much an OCD type of person as well.
HOWEVER.. this guy had 5 planets in Virgo. I will not lie. . but he got tired a lot, and i felt like I did all the work.
My experience was randki waplog not as depressing as all of yours, because my relationship with a Virgo Man was only for 5 months
His friends and my friends thought we would make it to the next level. Here is where it went wrong. I am VERY UPFRONT. I say what i feel, and i don’t get offended by people who tell me what they think of me. I’m also very flirtatious, but really honest and i NEVER cheat.
Everything was going great. We would attend parties, events, go to each others workplace, friends’ houses, too good to be true? People actually thought we were a couple! Even i started to THINK we were a couple.
All of a sudden. He turned COLD. I had a sense an ex gf was coming back into the scene. I confronted him about it, in my upfront way. “so is Marisa back in your life?”
He looked disgusted. Started pointing out ALL OF MY FAULTS. How i hung around men all the time, my friends are sluts, I work too much, i don’t see him often, I’m too naive.
I didn’t say anything about him. So I said, “okay.. so this is what i need to fix about myself right?”
I walked out the door. He texted me and called me for days. I didn’t ignore his texts.. but i needed space. finally, I said sure i’ll meet him. he kept pushing it. And PusHING it. And pushing it. Finally I got pissed at him and said, I was tired of him playing all these mind games with me.
The sex was great
I hung up the phone on him, called up this guy who wanted to date me for months, but i kept saying no and I smiled that night.
The Virgo bastard told people i disappeared on him and I left without giving an explanation. I cheated on him with many men. And i lied to him all the time. His friends asked me what happened.
They understood and are cool with me. Especially after he tried contacting me. He would try to make it seem like everything was my fault. But i’m a narcissistic bitch, and ego is so far up my ass, i would never give him a second chance.